Over the years, our Christmas Eve traditions have changed as our family has grown and changed. Here’s why.
Living in a rural area with lots of family nearby means that we usually have at least one if not THREE Christmas dinners to share with extended family on Christmas Day.
So, having our main family celebration on Christmas Eve with my husband and kids has always been the norm.
At our house, it’s a special time of anticipation and togetherness.
But besides exchanging gifts, in recent years I’ve been searching for fun things to do on Christmas Eve that really reinforce the joy of Christmas – from a Biblical perspective.
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Christmas Eve Traditions: Jesus or Santa?
As my kids have grown (we now have teenagers in our midst), I’ve struggled with how to appropriately emphasize the meaning of Christmas amidst all the chaos that comes with kids + presents!
And really, shouldn’t every day focus on the “real meaning” of Christmas? The birth of Jesus, the ressurrection – His ultimate sacrifice?
While I do try to weave these truths into our daily lives, it seems especially important at Christmas.
To me, it’s become of even greater significance as the present culture seems to over-emphasize everything BUT Jesus.
The consumerism of Christmas
It’s all about the gift-giving, pictures with Santa, elves on shelves and of course, the food!
Not that there is anything inherently wrong with those Christmas traditions.
Each Christian family I know has a different way of addressing the Santa / Jesus balancing act, and many do it beautifully.
But I have weird ways of thinking and over-thinking about things. And apparently, what to do on Christmas Eve is one of them.
I’ve decided that I just can’t go overboard with Santa anymore.
Christian Christmas traditions matter
I can’t make my kids sit on Santa’s lap just so I can have a commemorative picture. If I can be honest…it creeps me out more than a little!
I can’t pretend to hear reindeer hooves on the roof…when there’s a true Christmas story just waiting to be told.
I can’t lie to my kids if they ask me point-blank if Santa is real.
So, I don’t. My husband and I just don’t worry about it.
And guess what, our kids STILL have incredibly active imaginations. The younger ones like to pretend Santa is real but they’re wise enough to know otherwise.
Now, Jesus. He’s the One I want to invite in this year.
And I want my kids to feel the joy of His presence – the joy that lasts beyond this season.
Cultivating meaningful Christmas Eve Traditions – all about Jesus
So exactly how do we emphasize the One that Christmas is really all about?
I think the key is, in the hustle and bustle, to create intentional moments that are FUN and build excitement for the birth of Jesus.
With that said, here are 6 Christ-centered Christmas Eve traditions that I can totally get behind!
We try to incorporate at least a few of these Christmas Eve activities into our time of celebration each year.
Of course, you could do many of these during the Christmas season, and even beyond.
#1. Bake a Birthday cake for Jesus
Kids love cake, right? So why not let them bake a special cake to celebrate the birth of the King?
This is one meaningful Christmas tradition that is simple AND fun.
You can let them decide ahead of time what type of cake to make and how to decorate it.
It can be store-bought, homemade and healthy, or anything in between. 😉
The last time I let my kids make a cake themselves, it went down in history as the “crunchy” cake. Let’s just say it was a little heavy on the sprinkles!
The important thing is to celebrate Jesus and have fun doing it.
My ten-year-old has wanted to practice her piping skills on cookies and cakes this year so I’m going to let her lead the decorating team on this project.
So light the candles and sing Happy Birthday to Jesus!
#2. Attend a Christmas Eve Service
Our Church does not usually hold a Christmas Eve service but the last few years, we’ve enjoyed visiting other churches the night before Christmas.
Typically, a Christmas Eve service in our area consists of a sermon that focuses on the nativity story and many times these are candlelit services.
Of course, most people use LED candles now so you don’t have to worry about the kids + candles factor!
There’s definitely something beautiful about reflecting on Christmas under the glow of candlelight with your family and neighbors surrounding you.
It’s quite humbling – and you won’t experience this kind of peace in a shopping mall, that’s for sure! 😉
I always think it’s amazing that no matter how many times I hear the Christmas story preached from Luke’s gospel, I can appreciate something new that God wants to impress upon my heart.
Some Christmas Eve services will also include a live nativity which kids will love as well.
If you’re fortunate to have a live nativity nearby with camels and donkeys…you don’t want to miss it!
3. Make a Christmas Eve Box
A Christmas Eve box can include any items you’d like- so why not make it into a meaningful family memory?
You may have seen this idea circulating on social media over the last few years.
The idea is to make up a special box filled with gifts you can enjoy together as a family on Christmas Eve.
#4. Find Jesus! (Literally)
This is a fun and meaningful idea from Marie at Just Plain Living.
Her family’s tradition is to stage the Nativity scene at the beginning of Advent and use the figures to act out the events leading up to Jesus’ birth.
On the first Sunday of Advent, the Creche is displayed, then the family, then the shepherds so that everyone is ready and waiting the last week of Advent.
Baby Jesus is put in the scene on Christmas Eve by the youngest child in the family.
The Magi (wise men) start their journey to find the Christ Child on Christmas Eve.
So starting on Christmas Eve, you could begin to hide the wise men around the house each night and have the children “hunt” for them up until Three Kings Night (January 6th), where you can make them arrive at their destination.
Building Christmas anticipation
I know that my kids will LOVE competing to see who can find the Wise Men first!
This is such a fun way to tell the Nativity narrative and one they will look forward to each year.
Read the account of Jesus’ birth from the Bible as you re-enact the details in your home. There are many different ways you could do this if you want to get creative.
You could even print a map of Mary and Joseph’s journey and discuss what it must have been like.
We have the Fisher Price nativity set, great for little ones since it won’t break! But any nativity set would work, of course.
For older children, you could also watch The Bible Project’s summary of Luke Chapter 1 and 2 found here on Christmas Eve.
#5. Have a special Christmas Eve Dinner at home
There are so many creative ways to do this.
Since we usually have a traditional meal the next day, we sometimes will just ask the kids to come up with the menu of their favorite foods. This is before we have our Bible reading and gift exchange.
If you really want to get into the theme, you could serve a menu with things like:
- Shepherd’s Pie
- Chicken a la King
- Angel Food cake
- Star fruit
You get the idea 😉 . The birthday cake for Jesus would make a great dessert.
This year, we plan to make ours a candlelight dinner with Alexa playing Christmas hymns for our background music.
#6. Do a fun Christmas craft together
This idea is simple and great for younger kids especially.
Read the Christmas story from Luke Chapter 2 as your kiddos assemble this easy and colorful manger scene.
Find the free download and instructions here:
#7. Serve Others
What better way to celebrate Jesus than to be His hands and feet!
Think of ways your family could serve others in your community on Christmas Eve. You could:
- Bake cookies and take to a local shelter
- Sing Christmas carols at the nursing home
- Adopt a family in need and deliver their gifts (better yet- do it anonymously through a friend or neighbor)
- Invite another family to join you for a Christmas meal
- Adopt a child through Compassion International and spend time as a family writing your first letter to him or her.
- Find out other needs of community organizations and meet them.
Many churches and other places serve meals on Christmas Eve and need food, donations and people to serve the meals.
Christmas Eve Traditions: Carry them through the year!
My hope is that, as we draw near to our Savior this Christmas it will impress upon our children the wonder and awe of the real Jesus who came to seek and to save what was lost.
I want my children to grasp the miracle of His birth, the magnitude of our Lord’s sacrifice, and the Gift of salvation that we could never earn, afford or repay.
Leading up to Christmas, my prayer is that we will all recognize the nearness of the Savior.
May the joy we feel at Christmas remain, grow, and spread beyond us – beyond a season or a moment in time.
After all, He didn’t stay in the manger – and thankfully, He doesn’t visit just once a year!
I hope these Christmas Eve ideas will inspire a Christ-centered celebration in your home that lingers and creates lasting memories for your family.
Originally posted 9/15/18 and last updated 12/16/21.