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Maybe it’s your wife, your mom or your sister who are impossible to buy gifts for.  There’s one in every family.

It’s especially hard to find gifts for the woman who wants nothing.

Whether it’s a birthday or Christmas, they specifically tell you, “Don’t buy me anything.  I have everything I need.”

So do you honor their request?  That’s hard to know.  Many men think this request is a trap in disguise of frugality (ask my husband).

Honestly, I’m one of these women.  I’m really budget-conscious and I always tell my husband not to buy me anything.  If I want/need something, I will save up and buy it myself.  I’d rather save the gift funds in the regular budget for the kids.

My aversion to gifts is also because I don’t like clutter and knickknacks that I have to find a place for, dust, or otherwise re-home if I can’t find a use for them.  If you have a low-maintenance woman in your life, you probably have heard this excuse before.

And truly, STUFF doesn’t make me happy.  Gifts just aren’t my love language.

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However, what I’ve learned over 15 years of marriage is that gifts ARE my husband’s love language, and it’s also the case for many of my friends.

So as women, moms and minimalist-leaning ladies, we need to learn to be better at accepting gifts.

I’ve come to realize that my husband, even when he’s “under orders” to buy nothing, hates the feeling of being empty-handed.  So he’s usually going to break the rule anyhow- and it’s not a fair rule to begin with.

He simply delights in giving me gifts, so I need to think of practical gift ideas that I can be happy with – because it makes him happy to be a giver.  And he WANTS suggestions.

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Of course, I’ll appreciate anything my husband gives me.  Even that cast iron skillet he gave me for our 2nd Christmas which screamed, “Make me cornbread, woman!” (True story.)

And practical gifts, honestly, are a GREAT idea for the woman who isn’t always receptive to gifts.  Because usually, when we say we don’t want anything, what we really mean is, “I don’t want junk.”  But if it’s something we can really USE, we might secretly love it.

Useful Gifts for the Woman Who Wants Nothing

Below is a list of gift ideas for the woman who wants nothing — from a woman who wants nothing either, but would be very happy with these picks.  🙂

Coffee Related Gifts

Rae Dunn Travel Mug

I had no idea what these were until a few weeks ago when I went shopping with a friend and she went nuts over the display.  Apparently, they’re a huge THING right now especially for women who love farmhouse decor.


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I totally bought this travel mug out of pure peer pressure, although I WAS looking for a new mug that would keep my coffee hot for longer periods and looked nice.  And truly, I love this ceramic mug.

It’s heavy, which is a bonus around kids who like to knock things over.  It fits in my car’s cup holder.

It’s really perfect and I feel just *a little* more hip in the school pick-up lane.

Specialty Coffee or Tea

Many women (dare I say most?) enjoy a nice cup of coffee or tea at least once a day.  I happen to love both – coffee to wake up and herbal tea to go to sleep.

One of the best brands of coffee I’ve recently tried was at the Pioneer Woman Mercantile in Pawhuska, OK.  You can find the whole bean variety in her online store.  It’s a special blend roasted in Tulsa from Topeca Coffee Roasters and you can find their other blends on Amazon too.   Of course, you’ll need a coffee grinder to go with!

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While I love the flavor of freshly ground coffee, I have come to rely on K-cups in this stage of life.  My personal favorite is Cameron’s Toasted Southern Pecan.  While not gourmet, it’s worth a mention because I LOVE IT.  🙂

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If you prefer ground coffee, though (and saving money), reusable K-cups are the way to go.

Coffee flavors can be a pretty personal preference, so a variety pack is another great option.

For tea lovers, try a sampler pack like this one.

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I was also given a coffee pod storage drawer like this one a few years ago as a gift, and I’m still using it so I’d call it a winner!  I love that the Keurig sits on top of it so it doesn’t take up any extra space on my counter.

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Better yet, bundle some of these coffee items together in a nice basket if you really want to impress!

Gifts for the Home Chef

Enameled Dutch Oven

If your wife, mom or sister loves to cook and doesn’t own a quality dutch oven, she needs one.  This is something I asked for a few Christmases ago (when I first realized I needed to LET my husband buy me something!).  I don’t regret it one bit.


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I researched these extensively and the exact one I have is a Tramontina 7-qt Oval Dutch Oven because of its large size and great reviews.  We have 4 kids and I wanted to be able to cook BIG batches of soups, chili and stews especially when we have company.

Other brands that score high include Lodge and Anolon Vesta, and Le Creuset is known as the best high-end brand if you have a generous budget.

Amazon recently added a line of Amazon Basics dutch ovens at VERY affordable prices, and so far, the reviews look promising.


Chicago Cutlery Knives

The Chicago Cutlery knife block set from my wedding 15 years ago is still going strong and their knives are still a best-seller.  If I had to pick, this would probably be the set I’d choose.  Personally, I’d rather have a good set of knives than any chopper/slicing gadget out there.  (Who wants to clean those things?!)

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KitchenAid Mixer

This is a must-have kitchen appliance that I didn’t realize I needed until a few years ago when I received one as a gift.

I put up with a hand mixer and those dang beaters that never stayed put – for far too long!

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But this stand mixer gets the job done and I especially love it for making bread and pizza dough, which saves me money in the long run.


Stoneware Storage Bowls

I’ve been eyeing different brands of these stoneware storage bowls with lids and found these on Amazon recently.  Hint, hint, husband of mine!

Stoneware heats more evenly, stays warm longer and is considered much safer to eat from than plastics which can leach chemicals into your food.  This beautiful set is an amazing value too.

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Bamboo Kitchen Towels

IF you have a frugal wife who would appreciate a nice set of amazing dish towels and probably wouldn’t splurge on them herself, THESE are the ones.  I have a different bamboo-blend that I couldn’t find online, but bamboo in general is incredibly absorbent and works better at drying dishes than anything else on the planet.

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Kitchen towels are one of those things I have a hard time spending money on but would LOVE to receive as a gift.

Self Care Gifts

Luxury Pillows

Honestly, I haven’t quite found the “perfect” pillow for me because I’ve never been willing to spend more than a few bucks on one.  But I’m told if you spend more than $5, you can get a really nice pillow and likely a better night’s sleep.  🙂

This set of gel pillows are reasonably priced (especially for a 2-pack) and are very highly-rated on Amazon.

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Another popular pick are the shredded memory foam pillows you might have seen on TV.

My husband received one for Christmas last year and it’s still his favorite.


Adult Size Muslin Blanket

If you know a mom who loved their baby’s muslin blankets a little too much…you could make their entire year by gifting them this blanket.  I have a very similar one that I splurged on about 3 years ago and it’s simply amazing.  It’s great in summer OR winter because it’s truly a breathable fabric that keeps the chill off without making you sweat.  It gets softer every time I wash it.

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Yes to Coconut Hand Cream

I personally buy very few health & beauty items in a given year — I have just a few favorites.  Otherwise, I tend to use DIY recipes or just plain coconut oil for hand cream.

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But this Yes to Coconut hand lotion is hands-down (pun intended) my favorite.  It’s thick but non-greasy, 97% natural, and has a very light scent.  Perfect purse-size too.

Gourmet Chocolate

Most women love chocolate – especially the good kind that they won’t splurge on themselves.  The thing to remember is to step outside the Russell Stover box.  Try the Godiva chocolate barsHammond’s, or my best friend’s favorite, Chocolove (she warns me that I’ll forever be a chocolate snob after these!).

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Boot Socks

If you thought those fuzzy socks were a nice gift – these boot socks are waaaay better.  Just so you know.

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Perfect combination of stretchy, warm and cushy with boots or just lounging around the house.  If you are giving a gift to someone who’s always cold – they will appreciate these.

Sentimental (But Useful) Gifts

11×14 Photo Album

It’s likely that few of us actually use regular-sized photo albums anymore thanks to digital albums and photo books.  BUT what do you do with the kids’ 8×10 school pictures after each year passes, or last year’s 11×14 family photo?

If you’re like the majority of people, you just slap the new picture in front of the old one until you have a very heavy frame.  😉  But this is really a better option for preserving those oversized photos that you don’t know what to do with.  (And, now you can actually look at them now and then.)

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DSLR Camera

You can skip this idea unless your gift-recipient has actually shown interest in photography.  For me personally, I’d love to learn to use a DSLR camera to take better pictures of my kids and capture those fleeting memories.

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This Nikon D3400 was rated as the #2 pick for affordable DSLR cameras for beginners.


Glass Display Box

I love this idea for a keepsake box that I could store on the top of the bookshelf for safekeeping, but still see what’s inside.

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I would probably put some special items from the years my husband and I dated; our wedding, some special family pictures and souvenirs from family trips.


Gifts for the Tidy Homemaker

Robot Vacuum

If this was in my frugal budget, I would already own one for sure.  Who wouldn’t want to outsource this chore to a robot??  Moms with multiple kids and/or pets would be grateful.   This particular vacuum has great reviews.

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Welcome Mat

A fresh new welcome mat that’s stylish and also keeps my carpets cleaner = a win in my book.

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This is another one of those things that I hate to spend money on – but would be thrilled to receive as a gift.

Check out this mat if your gift-recipient has a large double-door entrance.

Non-toxic cleaning supplies

I recently bought this all-purpose concentrated cleaner with essential oils and it’s fabulous for making countertops shine.  It’s a safer alternative than chemical-based cleaners and one bottle goes a really long way.  (Rocky Mountain Oils are my favorite!)

Gifts for clean freaks

I would bundle it with some glass spray bottles like these, a large bottle of castile soap (it has a million uses including foaming hand soap), premium cleaning cloths , and a set of silicone sponges (on my wish list!).

Multi-Use Steamer

If you know someone obsessed with being wrinkle-free, a handheld steamer can be a huge time-saver.

It can be used on clothing, table linens, curtains- you name it.

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(I personally rely on wrinkle spray when I really need a quick “ironing” but would prefer the clean/scent-free steam any day.)

Whether you’re buying a gift for someone who is practical, frugal or just simply has everything – I hope you’ve found something on this list that makes her feel special!

And if not… Amazon has a great return policy 😉



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